Baptism of the Lord
January 12, 2025
But now thus says the Lord, he who created you, O
Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel:
Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have called you by name, you are
mine.
When you pass through the waters, I will be
with you;
and through the rivers,
they shall not overwhelm you;
when you walk through
fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.
or I am the Lord your God, the Holy One
of Israel, your Savior.
I give Egypt as your ransom, Ethiopia and
Seba in exchange for you.
Because you are precious in my sight, and
honored, and I love you, I give people in return for you,
nations in exchange for your life. Do
not fear, for I am with you.
I will bring your offspring from the east, and from the west I will gather you.
I will say to the north, “Give them up,” and to the south, “Do not withhold;
bring my sons from far away and my daughters from the end of the earth— \everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.”
My good friend John has been a Presbyterian pastor for a good long time. He’s a good preacher, an insightful leader, and a careful listener. John is loaded with people skills. He remembers names and can make you feel like you’ve been friends all your life.
But for all his many abilities, he does something that sets him apart. In every church John has served, he has offered a signature blessing. As the last hymn fades, he steps forward, raises his hands, and looks at the congregation square in the eye. Then he says it: “Remember, you are loved.” The music starts up, the people stand up, the ushers open the doors. And for a brief three seconds, John speaks the holy truth.
Can we hear it? Do we believe it? How quickly do we dismiss it?
The words are easy to dismiss if we don’t hear the words very often. They are easy to dismiss, too, if we hear them too much. Try it sometime when you go home. Say to someone close at hand, “I love you; I love you; I love you.” About five minutes of that, should you pause and take a breath, the other might say, “So, what do you want?”
Ulterior motives aside, maybe it is easier to say those words than to hear them.
When Henri Nouwen taught classes at Yale Divinity School, he befriended a young man named Fred. Fred was not a divinity student. He was a writer. He arrived to interview Henri for the Sunday edition of the New York Times. A friendship sparked. They stayed connected after the interview. Fred read a number of Henri’s books on the spiritual life. Henri encouraged Fred to write books of his own.
One day, as they walked down a street in New York, Fred said to him, “Henri, why don’t you write a book on the spiritual life for me and my friends?” He was a secular Jew in the city. Henri was a Roman Catholic priest. Henri agreed to the project, but soon began to agonize over it. What could he possibly write that would be helpful to those who did not share his religious tradition, his language, or his vision?
In time, he decided to write Fred a letter, a hundred-and-ten-page letter. The sum of that long letter was a single word: “Beloved.” You are beloved, which is the indirect way of saying Somebody loves you. And it’s hard to hear it. As Nouwen wrote to Fred,
“It is not easy to hear that voice in a world
filled with voices that shout: “You are no good, you are ugly, you are
worthless, you are despicable, you are nobody – unless you can demonstrate the opposite.”
These negative voices are so loud and so persistent that it is easy to believe
them. That’s the great trap. It is the trap of self-rejection. Over the years,
I have come to realize that the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity,
or power, but self-rejection. . .
He adds: “I am constantly surprised at how
quickly I give in to this temptation. As soon as someone accuses me or
criticizes me, as soon as I am rejected, left alone, or abandoned, I find
myself thinking, “Well, that proves once again that I am a nobody.”[1]
Yet behind it all, beneath it all, are the words of blessing: “Remember: You are loved.” Nouwen admitted in his letter to Fred how hard it is to trust these words. Yet, even in his most broken moments, even when every success was shattered and swept away, the word was with him, for it did not originate with him. It came from God. And if he dared sit long enough in silence, the Word echoed again. “You are my Beloved Child; on you my favor rests.”[2]
Has somebody told you that today?
Jesus heard these words on the day of his baptism. According to the Gospel story, the clouds cracked open, a dove descended, and a Voice thundered, “You are my Beloved Son; I’m pleased with you.” He did not choose those words. He was chosen to listen to them.
What’s remarkable is when these words are said. According to Luke, Jesus hadn’t done anything yet. He hadn’t cured the sick, restored the lame, or fed the crowd. He hadn’t yet preached a sermon, chased away a demon, or skewered religious hypocrisy. No. On Day One, God said to him, “I love you. I’m pleased with you.” That affirmation remained even as his friends ran away, as the crowds turned sour, as the soldiers laughed at him, The love defined him even when the voice of evil returned to tempt him to climb down from the cross.[3]
For God told him who he was: “You are my Beloved Child.”
Before God said that to Jesus, he said it to the people from whom Jesus came. As preached by the prophet Isaiah, God said, “People, you are my Beloved people. You are mine. I’ve called you by name. I have redeemed you.” Classic Bible words, of course. God is rarely so direct.
What’s remarkable is when those words are said. The people of Israel are recovering from an unwanted forty-year exile in a far-off land. The warnings had come for years: exploiting the poor, refusing to hold leaders accountable for their crimes, ignoring the teachings of God, skipping out on worship for the sake of their own employment and consumption. God said, “There are consequences to all of your actions.” After the nation had rotted internally, the Babylonians knocked down their temple and dragged them off in chains.
And nevertheless, God said, “I have paid off the ransom for you. I’m going to bring your kids home from east and west, north, and south. You have called me by my name; I’m calling you by name. You are precious. You are ‘significant.’ And I love you.” It’s one thing to hope for it. It’s another to hear it.
How does my good friend John say it? “Remember, you are loved.” Beneath our feet, over our heads. Before we go astray, after we’ve been steered back on course. God believes we are precious, in spite of ourselves. The holy covenant is extended to us through Jesus, a new covenant. It precedes and follows everything we do or say.
It’s no surprise that all of this comes together on a day when we are thinking about baptism. We don’t have any plans to baptize anybody today. It’s sufficient to affirm what God says to all who are baptized. Same words from Isaiah’s collection of God’s: you are precious, you are significant, you are mine. God says, “I call you by name.”
That’s why the preacher says, “What is the name of the one to be baptized?” It’s not because the preacher is old and forgetful, although some of us are. The question did come in handy one Sunday when I met a family at the baptismal font, didn’t have my worship bulletin, and I suddenly went blank, So I asked the question, and they repeated the name. Everybody already knew the name, you understand; but here’s what happens in baptism: that name is inextricably bound to the name of the Trinity. That’s why we baptize in the name of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. It’s more than a formality or a formula. It’s the naming of an identity. “Little one, you are a child of God.” Your destiny is bound to God’s destiny.
And we baptize into the promises of God. We baptize babies before we know if they will grow up to be short or left-handed, bald or curly, gay or libertarian. All we are announcing is, “Here is a new one, precious to God. And we are going to pledge all we can to shape their lives so that they know that.” It may take a while. God takes pleasure in them – and God wants to take pleasure in them. There is a holy life to be lived. Sometimes it’s more than we expect.
About ten years ago, the writer Brian McLaren posted one of his writings on the internet. Within hours it had been shared tens of thousands of times. Brian calls it “A free-verse poem that struck a nerve.” It’s about a baptism, and it goes like this:
“My
parents tell me you did it,” she said. “But I was not consulted. So now, undo
it.”
The priest’s eyes asked why.
“If
it were just about belonging to this religion and being forgiven, then I would
stay.
If it were just about believing this list of doctrines and upholding this
list of rituals, I’d be OK.
But your sermon Sunday made it clear it’s about
more. More than I bargained for.
So, please, de-baptize me.”
The priest looked down, said nothing.
She continued:
“You
said baptism sends me into the world to love enemies. I don’t. Nor do I plan
to.
You said it means being willing
to stand against the flow. I like the flow.
You described it like rethinking everything, like joining a Movement.
But I’m not rethinking or moving anywhere. So
un-baptize me. Please.”
The priest began to weep. Soon great sobs rose from his deepest heart.
He took off his glasses, blew his nose, took three tissues to dry his
eyes.
“These are tears of joy,” he said.
“I think you are the first person who
ever truly listened or understood.”
“So,” she said, “Will you? Please?”[4]
If you were the priest, what would you say? I think I’d say we can’t wash off the water – that’s the nature of God’s love for us. That’s the covenant.
And God loves us so much, that God wants us to grow up and become like Jesus. In fact, God loves us enough to keep interfering in our lives, sometimes stepping in directly, to wake us up, to turn us around, to orient our hearts until the Precious Ones begin to act and look as if they are God’s Precious Ones. That’s the covenant, too. We are bound to God and God is bound to us.
God’s not going to go to all that trouble to gather us, love us, and redeem us, without expecting us to gather others, too; to love them as unconditionally as he loves us; and then to join in Christ’s ongoing work of redemption. For not only are we loved; we are called.
Called to shine God’s light in this
present darkness.
Called to love both friends and
enemies.
Called to make a healing difference in a hurting world.
We can’t wash off the water of
baptism. God loves us – and the world – way too much.
[1] Henri J. M. Nouwen, Life of the
Beloved: Spiritual Living in a Secular World (New York: Crossroad, 1992)
31-33.
[2] Ibi, 77.
[3] Luke 23:35, 37
[4] Brian McLaren. See https://brianmclaren.net/a-poem-that-struck-a-nerve/