Saturday, September 27, 2025

The Grand Distortion

Luke 16:19-31
September 28, 2025
William G. Carter

"There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who longed to satisfy his hunger with what fell from the rich man's table; even the dogs would come and lick his sores.

 

The poor man died and was carried away by the angels to be with Abraham. The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was being tormented, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far away with Lazarus by his side. He called out, 'Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, for I am in agony in these flames.'

 

But Abraham said, 'Child, remember that during your lifetime you received your good things and Lazarus in like manner evil things, but now he is comforted here, and you are in agony. Besides all this, between you and us a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us.'

 

He said, 'Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father's house -- for I have five brothers--that he may warn them, so that they will not also come into this place of torment.' Abraham replied, 'They have Moses and the prophets; they should listen to them.'

 

He said, 'No, Father Abraham, but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.' He said to him, 'If they do not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.'"

It is a safe bet that we have heard this story before. Maybe you read it in the Bible. Maybe you heard it from me. Every time this text shows up in the schedule, I have a hard time passing it by. It’s vivid and poignant. The story has a bite. 

There’s a preacher I know who was stunned to discover it is a recurring story. In a Bible class, he learned that many diverse cultures tell a story like this one. “There were a rich man and a poor man.” There’s always a rich man, always a poor man. It does not depend on where the story is told. In every place on earth, we have affluence and poverty. In every one of those situations, there is a great gulf between them. This story is not restricted to the Bible.

Yet it belongs here, too, for it is a Bible story. Specifically, and uniquely, it belongs in the Gospel of Luke. As we have heard since the summer, Luke tells us how Jesus warned about the trappings and temptations of having a lot of money. He has also kept our eyes upon the poor and called us to compassion.

What’s more, since page one of his book, Luke tells us that God will reverse fortunes. What did mother Mary say before her baby Jesus was born? “God has filled the hungry with good things and sent the rich away empty.”[1] What did the grownup Jesus announce to his followers? “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God… Woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation.”[2] That’s either good news or bad news, depending on whether you feast sumptuously or wait for the crumbs to fall from the table.

As Jesus tells the story today, his characters enflesh those teachings. There’s the anonymous rich man. It could be any of us. The poor man is named. He is Lazarus, named after a friend whom Jesus loved. Their situations have been reversed. In the life to come, Lazarus leans on Father Abraham, now comforted and consoled. And where is the rich man? You might say he’s cooking in the basement.

What’s remarkable is how Jesus takes this well-known story and expands upon it. First, the two are eternally separated. There is a great gulf between them. It cannot be passed. The decision is final. One is up; one is down. There is no middle ground – except for the ground that you and I currently inhabit. So, he’s trying to teach his disciples in every time and place: give freely of yourself, share what you have, do not separate yourself from those in need. There may still be time, Ebenezer Scrooge, so wake up from that bad dream and show some compassion.

There’s a second way Jesus expands on the story. He says everything we need to know was written down in the Bible. There’s nothing new about feeding one another. It’s in “Moses,” that is, the wisdom of the Jewish Torah. And it’s in “the Prophets” – that’s the section that a lot of people don’t read. Not just because it’s poetry, and poetry can be difficult, but because the prophets of Israel regularly punctured the illusions of those who ignored their neighbors.

We could look at this in chapter and verse, but we would be here most of the day. And today is the day to get out into the neighborhood. The point is, everything is in the Book, the Good Book. Read the Book. Live the Book.

What captures my attention this time through the story is something the rich man says while the flames are burning him up. Did you hear what he said? “Send Lazarus to cool me off!” Isn’t that something? He’s burning up in hell and he still thinks he is in charge.

In fact, he tries to pull those eternal strings three times. “Send Lazarus to douse me in water.” “Send him to my five brothers to warn them not to end up like me.” That is, neglecting neighbors is a family habit; at least he cares enough about his brothers to warn them. And then he says, “Send Lazarus back from the dead. That will wake them up.” Then Jesus says, with a pre-Easter wink, “If they won’t listen to Moses and the Prophets, a resurrection will not wake them up.”

Like I said, three times the rich man thinks he’s in charge. He had his “good things” during his lifetime. That seems to have shaped his thinking. He believes he is superior. He thinks he can still order people around. He’s fond of telling Abraham, or God, or Jesus what he wants them to do. And this is the Grand Distortion. It is the presumption of some to think they are better than others. “Send Lazarus to cool me off…” Ouch!

It’s this presumption - that I am better than you - that seems to be the root of it all.

Now, it must be said that the present world is full of inequities. People get paid different amounts, sometimes when they do the same work. Some folks pay others to do what they don’t want to do. Or pay them for what they are not able to do. Some are born into abundance, while for others, all the “good things” are withheld. Is it fair? Of course it isn’t fair. Neither is it fair that some “game the system” to their advantage, while others languish in their poverty. Life as we know it is not smoothed out and the same for everybody.

And yet the root of a lot of evil is in that assumption – that presumption – that some of us are better than others. Ask the historian Heather Cox Richardson at Boston College. She concludes this was the original basis for enslaving African people. Hundreds of years later, it continues when the voter rolls of their descendants are purged with absolutely no evidence of fraud. Some want to move ahead by keeping others behind.

So, this is a good story to keep in mind when we do a lot of good things today for the neighborhood. Do we serve others because we are better than them? Or is it because we are participating in a common humanity? Do we lean down or step over? Or do we stand beside?

I think of that poor rich man in Jesus’ story. He had an impoverished heart which led to an impoverished imagination. All he had to do was look out the window, see Lazarus (who he knew by name), and say, “Lazarus, let’s eat together at our table.” But he couldn’t do it. Or wouldn’t do it. And that sad little soul has given clues as to why. He thought he was superior.

In the mission literature, there is the phrase “toxic charity.” That’s the kind of charity you do that makes things worse. Like that church group we saw in the Port-au-Prince airport years ago. On their way home, singing Jesus songs, and saying, “Isn’t it too bad how these people live?” In a moment, they negated everything they thought they were doing. I wonder if any of those kids in matching t-shirts had their hearts cracked open wide enough to see they lived on the same planet as everybody else.

It’s one thing to do good deeds for others. It’s another to do good deeds with others. That’s the genius of a model like Habitat for Humanity. You don’t merely build a house for the needy. You build a house with them, as partners, standing on the same level ground. And whatever pre-existing inequities melt away when you serve side by side.

That’s one of the subtle but significant changes that I’ve seen in our congregation. Thirty-five years ago, First Presbyterian Church wrote checks to those in need. Now, we write checks - and we show up, too. We come alongside. We learn names. We listen to the stories. We bridge the gaps. We build relationships. We discover once again that we are in this life together.

The simple fact is this: none of us are any better than anybody else. None of us. Well, OK. Jesus is better than us. But give him a good look. He’s down on his knees, washing our feet.



(c) William G. Carter. All rights reserved.

[1] Luke 1:53.

[2] Luke 6:20, 24.

Sunday, September 7, 2025

On Hating Your Life

Luke 14:25-33
September 7, 2025
William G. Carter


Now large crowds were traveling with him, and he turned and said to them, "Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple.

 

Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it will begin to ridicule him, saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.'

 

Or what king, going out to wage war against another king, will not sit down first and consider whether he is able with ten thousand to oppose the one who comes against him with twenty thousand? If he cannot, then while the other is still far away, he sends a delegation and asks for the terms of peace.

 

So therefore, none of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions.


Looking out at the congregation today, I have only one question. Where did everybody go? Last Sunday, the room was full. We printed over two hundred worship bulletins, even though it was a holiday weekend. There was only one bulletin left. We had a big crowd. It was wonderful.

But where is everybody today?

Oh, I know. Every Sunday is not a revival. Last week was a special event with its own magnetism. We don’t always beef up the choir with Roman Catholics. Nor do we normally welcome guests from California, Massachusetts, Brooklyn, Binghamton, or Allentown. All viable reasons. 

But I must wonder: do you think all the people who were here last week found out about our scripture lesson?

According to the Gospel of Luke, Jesus was on the move. He was followed by “large crowds.” Enormous crowds! And he spins around and shouts to them all, “You can’t follow me unless you hate your family, carry the cross, and give up all your possessions.” Sounds like he wanted to thin out the herd. Trim away the dead wood. Pare down the inflated membership roll. Travel only with the True Believers, not with the Hangers On.

But what a way to do it!

It sounds like Jesus was not interested in church growth. You can’t build a congregation, much less a movement, by making the admission more restrictive. Imagine the congregation, service organization, or country club that extends its arms to say, “You all come! Everybody is welcome!” And when the masses come through the door, a second announcement is made, “You can’t stay unless you meet our stringent requirements.” That’s no way to enlarge an organization, but it is a way to clarify who is worthy of being there.

Jesus turns toward the large crowd following him and says, “Hate your family, carry the cross, and give up what you have.” After hearing him say this, I’m not surprised anybody sneaks out. So, let’s explore each of those requirements.

First: “Father, mother, spouse, children, brothers, sisters – you must hate them.” And yes, it does say “hate.” These are people bound to us. We don’t choose most of them, which means from time to time they are going to drive us crazy. Does anybody here have a completely peaceful family? No, I didn’t think so. But hate them?

Household irritations are a common occurrence, whether we air that dirty laundry in public or not. Two sisters may borrow one another’s clothing without permission. The brother might be an annoying know-it-all. Mom may hover while Dad ignores, all common situations. And then if you are blessed to have a spouse, well, there could be differences in opinion on everything from tidiness around the home, to the importance of changing the oil in the car, to how you discipline the kids.

God has created each of us with our own particularities and peculiarities. That’s a gentle way of saying none of us are identical, not even sets of twins – and certainly not the triplets. But to hate them? That seems over the top – which is exactly the point.

See, Jesus spoke as a first-century Jew. In that Semitic culture, choices were very clear. It’s either this or that. There were no gradations in between. Which is to say, if you want to follow Jesus, you can’t let your following be affected by what your family thinks. Either you’re in or you’re out.

Some of you are here today, while members of your family are sleeping in or going to brunch. You chose to make the commitment, and God bless you for it. And that’s not to say your family members are not following Christ, too. Maybe they are tired, or going through a slump, or they have mixed feelings about sitting for an hour in a room like this surrounded by people like us. Whatever.

Four decades of pastoral ministry has taught me to lean into graciousness. As for ourselves, we don’t live our spiritual lives for other people. As for others, God is not finished with anybody yet. The point is you have to be clear. That clarity increases the closer we get to Christ. It is possible to keep loving our families, working for their benefit, saving for their futures – and to still distinguish between who they are and who Jesus is.

That’s what he means when he says “hate.” He wants to shock us into deciding if it’s him or them. That’s the distinction he imposes on each of us. And it’s direct.

Second, he says, “You have to carry the cross.” What cross – his cross or the cross? Curious, isn’t it, that Luke and the other gospels put a phrase like this before the story of the crucifixion. It almost sounds like the Gospel writers are reading the cross of Christ back into our story of discipleship. That it’s a symbol that defines how we are called to live out our faith here and now.

Obviously, he’s not saying all of us will be nailed to wood by Roman soldiers. That old practice is long-gone, thankfully. But what is the cross? There are several interlocking answers.

·       The cross is a call to self-sacrifice. We set aside our will to do the will of God.

·       The cross comes when we do the right thing in a world that doesn’t want us to do the right thing.

·       The cross is given to us when we speak truth to people who are living by lies.

·       The cross comes as punishment when we expose evil and name it for what it is.

Just think of the stories of Jesus. He was punished for being a good person.

Yet he remained good in spite of his punishment. The cross means all of this.

And there’s more.

·       The cross exposes the meanest intentions of people – and then it cancels those mean intentions.

Those who put Jesus on the cross heard him pray, “Father, forgive them.”

That’s the answered prayer on which every human life depends.

·       Therefore, the cross is the deepest expression of grace. We killed the Son of God, and God didn’t retaliate.

This means forgiveness is always possible. Unless we’re still nursing the grudge.

·       And the cross means there is a new world, a new way of doing things, a new dominion which we call the kingdom of God. What that means is this is God’s world, not the devil’s world. There’s a lot of evil, meanness, and corruption still lingering about. But we don’t belong to that. We belong to God.

I think of the apostle Paul, writing to a church in Turkey, and concluding his letter by saying, “May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me and I to the world.”[1] Then he says, “The only thing that matters is a new creation. That’s everything.” It’s not a new creation far off in the future, but right now. We belong to God. We live out of the love he has for all of us.

Yesterday, my friend Jim and I attended a funeral for one of our clergy colleagues. Tom was a man with a big heart. Sadly, that big heart of his gave out on the day before he was going to marry off his son and new daughter-in-law. It was a shock for the family and all his friends. But there was a taste of New Creation in his obituary. It quoted what he said when he began his last pastorate. Listen to this:


As I look at humanity, I can only describe the human personality as designed for relationship with something from which it has been separated. Christian reconciliation, the realization that God in Christ has become human and in doing so unconditionally accepts us and helps us. That is my basic theological starting point.[2]

The cross reconciles us to God, and through God with one another. There it is. Carry that. Even if an evil world hates you. Just live like Jesus – connecting, forgiving, loving, giving yourself away for the sake of others. That’s what it means to carry the cross.

Third, he says, “You can’t become my disciple if you don’t give up all your possessions.” Wait – is that an echo I hear? Jesus has been saying something like this ever since he started out on the road. There’s something about having a lot of stuff that slows you down. And here, it’s even more stark. He calls us to give it all up. Everything. Every nickel in our pockets, every shirt in the closet, every book on the shelves. Every everything.

I dug into the text to see if I could soften it. Not a chance. It says what it says. Then I submitted to reason: if we give everything up, we are empty handed, defenseless, impoverished, and naked. Reminds me of a rich boy. You could call him Frank. He lived a few years ago and lived quite well. Then he had a series of spiritual visions that shook him up. He began to perceive the wastefulness of his opulent lifestyle, the way he tossed his father’s money around. Until one day, he stripped off his clothing in front of the local bishop, vowing a life of poverty.

I said his name was Frank, but you might know him as St. Francis of Assisi. For him to follow in the way of Jesus, he had to let goods and kindred go. All his stuff was bogging him down. So, he had to unload what he had as a sign of what he aspired for his soul.

Again, it sounds like an early Christian hymn about Jesus. “He had equality with God,” sang the church, “but figured that equality was not something to be clutched, so he emptied himself, becoming like a servant.”[3] It’s this movement of downward mobility that is held up as the model. Becoming like a servant by giving up all the stuff you’re carrying around.

Now, if that sounds difficult, it is. It’s the third time I’ve mentioned that in a sermon in the past six weeks because it comes up that frequently in the Gospel of Luke. Luke is the gospel of relinquishing, of letting go, of giving up power and prestige – and of course, unloading all our possessions. First time this came up in a sermon this summer, some of you reported how good it felt to clean out your closets. But we are called to keep at it, to keep letting go, in order that we can acquire more of Christ.

In fact, if you look in the back of my Subaru out in the parking lot, it’s loaded with stuff I’m dropping off at a friend’s garage sale. And the more I get rid of, the more I realize I still have. Relinquishing is long term work. Apparently, we are born with sticky fingers. We attach ourselves to everything.

But that’s precisely why Jesus is exaggerating – “Give up all our possessions”? Really, Lord? If we did that, we would have nothing left. And his response is, “No, if you gave it all up, all you’d have left is me.” And this is the Gospel truth, the day is coming when we will give it all up. And will he have him? Or better, will he have us?

Because that’s the bottom line. When all is said and done, it is only Christ that can save us. Only Christ who will keep us. Not our money, not our safety, not even our families as nice as they are. Only Christ is worthy of all our hearts, all our wills, all our hopes, all our hearts. And so, the church at its simplest will sing:

 

Jesus, priceless treasure,

source of purest pleasure,
friend most sure and true:
long my heart was burning,

fainting much and yearning,
thirsting, Lord, for you.
Yours I am, O spotless Lamb,

so will I let nothing hide you,
seek no joy beside you!



(c) William G. Carter. All rights reserved.

[1] Galatians 6:14-15

[2] Obituary for the Rev. Dr. Thomas William Blair. Online at https://www.wmhclarkfuneralhome.com/obituary/thomas-blair

[3] Philippians 2:6-7.